Annie Gourgue, from the door of the orphanage to the love of children

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On March 14, Annie Gourgue received the special family medal from the prefect Jean-Noël Chavanne.

An award that rewards his ardent commitment to the benefit of abused, beaten and murdered children. The children’s cause is undoubtedly life’s struggle for Annie, born Peklidonoglos in Ajaccio, on a fatal All Saints’ Day, to a Greek father who immigrated to the Isle of Beauty and a Corsican mother.

“My starting point was totally negative. Eleven days after my birth, my mother and my grandmother dropped me off in a basket in front of the hotel restaurant where my father worked as a chef in Ajaccio.” A biological father who knew nothing about his existence, “but a loving father who adored me. The beginning of my existence was therefore built on a rejection”.

The abandoned child she was finds a surrogate grandmother in this restaurant, but upon her father’s untimely death at the age of 42, her life is turned upside down, the victim of another abandonment of her stepmother described as a “stepmother”.

4 and a half years old, she was forcibly led by this strict woman, dressed entirely in black, to the door of the orphanage “Le Bon Pasteur” in Bastia. “A nun with a big bundle of keys picked me up with these words: ‘There’s the little one I told you about! I leave it to you, it’s not mine!’ Terrible memories that will never leave me. My struggle is directly linked to my abandoned childhood and my suffering as a little girl. ”Meanwhile, the war broke out, the convent moved to Erbalunga towards Cap Corse.

Double abandonment and loss of identity

The young Annie is confronted with the cold of the nuns, with a pious, rigorous education, without outflow, nor warmth and love. She will live there until she is 20 years old. Her adopted grandmother will never stop looking for her. But in the meantime, Annie was renamed Anita because the orphanage already had another Annie. Brutal loss of identity, lost amid 140 orphans, hours spent on knees, punishing: “What you remember in that moment is that your universe has collapsed. My father’s death in as a child was incomprehensible to me. I said to myself : either you walk, or you die, it was in my Corsican character.And one day when I took the sun to treat sore throat – there were many breast sufferers among us – a sister came up to talk to me.She gave me some bread and a chocolate bar and a cloth to help her polish the furniture. It was the very first time we were interested in me. The day it was like a resilience, I integrated the idea that my life in the future would be like this and that I had no choice ”.

She decides to move on, opens up to others, participates in games, passes the school diploma, supervises children. An entire journey. “When you get abused, it’s not inevitable to become an addict! I’m a proof that if someone reaches out to you, like this nun, and if you take that hand, you can grow and rebuild yourself. I was not wished I was rejected and I receive this medal from the Family! My whole life paraded on March 14 at the gendarmerie on the occasion of the inauguration of the Maison de la protection de family “.

Annie became Gourgue thanks to her union with Alain, married in Algiers in Saint-Charles church on March 25, 1961, ie 61 years of marriage. And in the shadows, his greatest discreet support in devotion to children was embraced as a priesthood by Annie.

Algeria, another heartache

The promotion from the land of Algeria and the arrival in Nérac as returnees are experienced as painful. Once again, the rejection … of pied-noirs, the stigma, but the family grows happily, two children and six grandchildren, whom parents and grandparents value.

It is on this childhood wound that his future is built. There is this crucial meeting one evening at the campaign headquarters on rue Ledru-Rollin, with the François-Poncet couple “signing for Alain and me, our political commitment”. She works in the general council of the reserved cabinet. And then one evening in 1984 for a dinner with Jean François-Poncet, the then minister, the mayor of Colayrac-Saint-Cirq shows up to inform him that a little girl has disappeared when she left school. This is Magali Forabosco: “A friend from dance school, my daughter Marie”. A young girl was unfortunately found murdered in a mousetrap fifteen days later. The author, Robert Guinet, a repeat offender under house arrest in Lot-et-Garonne.

The support for Magali’s parents and in the wake of the families of child victims is thus outlined. Annie Gourgue mobilizes, evokes a march in Paris, and calls for an alternative to the death penalty, which Mitterrand abolished three years earlier.

30 incompressible years

for child killers

She invites herself to the National Assembly, crosses paths and challenges in the Laurent Fabius elevator that rolls. She besieges the Élysée, softens François Mitterrand’s private secretary, who wins her audience, but the president advises her to speak to the senators. A petition circulates and picks up speed. The case is mediated by Anne Sinclair and all media. Annie obtains compensation for the victims’ parents. First victory. She is pushing hard on the chancellery, meets Pierre Méhaignerie, proposing to the National Assembly the uncompromising sentence of 30 years in prison for the murderers of children who have committed barbaric acts. The proposal will be approved.

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